Welcome to the Head and the Heart Podcast.
Imagine a year from now…
You’re looking back on your year thinking to yourself: “What a year I’ve had!”
Goals in all areas of your life were getting ticked off your list.
Health goals. Financial goals. Relationship goals.
Goals you’d been trying to accomplish for years. Finally behind you.
And it all started with this:
I have been using Hyatt’s Best Year Ever system for the last 2 years to make significant progress on some of my biggest goals in my life.
When Hyatt’s group asked me to get the word out about BYE I didn’t hesitate because it has made such a difference in my life.
I’ve learned how to set AACTIONable goals that are clear and consistent with what I’ve determined is most important to me.
I’ve learned how to keep my goals in front of me at all times in the year making it harder to ignore or forget.
I’ve learned how to celebrate when I reach my goals and how to readjust or identify what might have gone wrong in missing the mark in a healthy way so that I can regroup and move forward.
I really think that if you are serious about making 2017 a better year than the dumpster fire that was 2016… Best Year Ever is for you!
P.S. You can’t just “hope” that 2017 will be your
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My goal here is to help equip you to grow in your love and leadership for the people God has put in your care. This week, I get to share with you the opportunity to go after some big goals this next year. All of this leads up to the release of program that I have personally used to transform my day to day schedule, achieve some of my biggest goals, and help others think through God’s purposes for their lives. I am so excited!!! So here’s the $100,000 dollar question:
Have you’ve ever struggled to hit any of the goals you’ve set for yourself?
Maybe you have BIG plans for this year but you are a little hesitant to put pen to paper, the shoulder to the wheel, and get after it?
The problem, so it seems, is that life feels out of control sometimes, doesn’t it?
Project deadlines and kiddo soccer practices and coffee with a friend and getting dinner on the table and sneaking in some exercise and don’t forget that work trip next
week… and… and…
Whew. It’s a lot to handle.
If you are like me sometimes our vision of where we want to be gets obscured because we get so bogged down and focused on the myriad of things calling out and vying for our immediate attention.
What if there was a way to take some of the control back? What if you could get a handle on all the things you are currently doing and begin achieving some of the biggest goals you have for your life?
New York Times bestselling author Michael Hyatt is going to show you, step-by-step, how to use goal-setting to take control of your days and turn them into the life you really want.
You’ll hear Michael share things like:
* The one single strategy that will instantly make
you 42% more likely to accomplish your goals —
it’s shocking how many people miss it
* How to “quit-proof” your goals and ensure 2017 is
the year you finally cross “that big one” off your
list (you know which one I’m talking about!)
* Why detailed action plans work against you and an
alternate strategy that will take a huge weight off
* The secret to sustaining your initial momentum and
keep making progress toward your goals no matter what
life throws at you
* The common and seemingly positive goal-setting
strategy that is likely sabotaging your success
(and what to do instead)
and so much more!
There are several different times to accommodate your
schedule. See what works for you here:
By the end of the presentation, you’ll be crystal
clear about how you can have your best year ever
Make sure you reserve a spot for webinar:
It’s a free presentation but it will fill up super fast (which is why you need to reserve your spot).
P.S. All registrants will get a special
workbook designed specifically for this
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I admit it.
I absolutely love taking assessments in order to learn a little more about myself and what might make me tick..
Self-discovery can be hard, so any tool that makes
it easier is a win in my book.
That’s why I love this free tool from my friend, Michael Hyatt.
You can actually score your LIFE.
Sounds weird, I know, but hang with me.
In ministry, I like to say, “What matters, gets measured.” That’s why we look at attendance, new ministries, and community engagement in order to help us see what’s working, what’s not, and what are our big opportunities to improve.
With work or home it might be a little easier because we could use our income as an indicator. But what about our health, or our relationships, or our intellectual growth?
Now there is a great tool called the LifeScore
Assessment that helps you do this in less than 10
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All you do is quickly rate yourself on a scale of 1-12 in each of life’s ten domains.
You read a series of statements that describe specific
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with where you perceive yourself to be. Each one
corresponds with a number, and those add up to your
It’s incredibly simple. But I promise it will instantly
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P.S. If you want to improve something, start measuring it. The LifeScore assessment finally gives us an easy way to do this for every area of our lives. Here’s where to find out your number:
P.S.S. The ebook I posted last week is still available but for TODAY ONLY! Get Achieve What Matters in 2017. Don’t miss the opportunity to hear how some of today’s best leaders prepare for the new year.
My family and I had a great little vacation down in Marfa, TX staying in remote little area of the world connecting with God and one another. This is the 2nd year we’ve made this trip and it is well on its way to becoming a tradition in the Felker household.
Over the few days we were away, Sandy and I worked on preparing for the next year and began to set some goals as individuals, as a couple, as parents, and as ministry partners. One of the exercises we worked through was to express gratitude for what we have right now. We each wrote out 10 things that we are grateful for and here is what I wrote:
1) A Supportive, Uplifting Wife
If you know my wife, she is the epitome of love, support, and encouragement.
2) Two Joy-full kids
My children genuinely love one another and are so full of joy. They are growing up so fast and this trip was amazing because of them.
3) A healthy leadership team
I love our leadership team at church and am grateful that God has brought us together and I am anxious to see what He has in store for us moving forward.
4) A Loving, Accepting Church
Our church… LOVES. Plain and simple.
5) Wise Friends
Grateful to the men and women around me who walk beside me, counsel me, challenge me, and model Christ for me.
6) Unlimited Resources
We live in a day and age where you can access information 24/7. From books to podcasts to conferences to Skype… the resources to grow or get unstuck are everywhere.
7) An Active Mind
A mind is a terrible thing to waste.
8) Insight to My Inners
Over the last two years, God has granted me some important insights and understandings into how I tick, what brings me health, and what takes away from that health. And it has made all the difference.
9) A Body That Can Move
A body is a terrible thing to waste.
10) It’s Not Too Late to Grow
If you’re reading this… It’s not to late for you either. What are 10 things you are grateful for RIGHT NOW. Write them down, meditate on them, use them as fuel to get up and move. Go… right now… Its not too la
Is 2017 sneaking up on you?
I know the feeling…
In a little over a month a new year will be upon us. I’m not a big believer in resolutions but I am a believer is setting goals (BHAGGGs – Big Hairy Audacious God Given Goals!). These goals aren’t just about what I want to do or accomplish. They are about the person – the disciple, husband, father, leader, and friend- I want to become.
Right now, I’m taking a few days away with the family to celebrate Thanksgiving. The whole point of this vacation is to connect – connect with God, my wife, my kids, and… myself. I’m giving thanks for the things that happened this year – good and not so good – and I’m giving thanks for the things that are on the horizon. I want to do some great things this next year, but mostly I just want to enjoy the life God has given me and keep loving and leading those he has given me. I want to make a dent in their worlds.
If there is one secret to making the most out of a new year it is this…
To make the new year count all you need to do is simply take a few moments to prepare for it.
That’s why I love this (free!) PDF download from my friend, Micheal Hyatt:
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In it, 30+ well known influencers all share the most
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Access to their answers is all yours (at no cost) here:
I hope you’ll check it out and that it will set you on a path to preparing for a great 2017!
P.S. This free PDF is a wealth of wisdom to kickstart
2017. If you’ve felt stuck for a while, don’t miss it.
P.P.S. I’ll have more access to resources from Michael Hyatt and a great opportunity for you to lay down some BHAGGGs for yourself and family so that you can make 2017 your best year ever. Stay tuned!
Over the last few weeks, I have been preaching a sermon series entitled, Good Faith: Being a Christian in a World That Thinks You’re Irrelevant and Extreme. It is based, in part, on the book of the same name by Gabe Lyons and David Kinnaman – which you should get and read TODAY. In yesterday’s message, I told our people that, as men and women of Good Faith, rather than wringing our hands in worry over the election on November 8, we needed to commit to raising our hands in prayer on November 9th and beyond. Regardless of who is elected President of the United States tomorrow, disciples of Jesus Christ have a greater calling that goes on regardless of the person who resides in the White House. Below you will find the full transcript of the letter I wrote to the Next President. I am committed to doing these 3 things in the name of Jesus and I invite you to join me.
Dear Mr. President-Elect,
After a grueling and (at times) unbelievable campaign, you have received the votes necessary to become the President of The Untied States. Now the hard work begins: Putting together your leadership team, selecting Cabinet members, connecting with Senators and Congressmen, laying out your agenda for the first 100 days and beyond. The pressure from political allies and foes alike is, no doubt, immense. You certainly have no shortage of voices to listen to. However, we would like to add our voices to the mix and write you a short letter of encouragement explaining to you our commitment to our Lord Jesus Christ, to you, and to the country we call home.
We are a group of Christ-followers who meet together for worship, fellowship, and service to our community which is just south of the Dallas/Ft Worth metroplex. We seek to grow as disciples of Jesus Christ in our relationship with Him, our friendship with one another, and influence with those around us. We strive to be men and women of Good Faith – people who seek to love well, grounded in our convictions, and living out the Gospel so that those we come in contact with may experience abundant life in Christ Jesus.
As you step into the Oval Office, we have some things that we would like to share with you as you begin to serve the great people of this great nation. In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul writes to a young preacher that he is mentoring. His letter, 1Timothy, details for young Timothy, how a leader is to serve, mold, and lead a young congregation to faithfulness and fruitfulness in an ever-changing world. In chapter 2 verses 1-7, Paul says,
I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people— for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. This is good, and pleases God our Savior, who wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth.For there is one God and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all people. This has now been witnessed to at the proper time. And for this purpose I was appointed a herald and an apostle—I am telling the truth, I am not lying—and a true and faithful teacher of the Gentiles.
Based on this passage, there are 3 things we would like you to know about what we as a church are committed to do for you over the next 4 years.
First, we will pray for you. The tremendous amount of stress that being President will put on your heart, your mind, your family, and those around you will be more than you can bear on your own. God’s Word tells us to pray to God for His wisdom in difficult situations and trials. God tells us to pray for our friends and our enemies. To pray when we are sick and to pray when we are thankful. In prayer, we connect to God, those we are praying for, and our own hearts. We are committing to you that we will pray for you by name. We will pray for your family. We will pray for wisdom and strength.
Secondly, we will work for Peace and Prosperity. In the Old Testament, God’s people were about to fall into the hands of their enemies and be carted off to live in exile. The prophet Jeremiah, speaking the Word of God to God’s people, tells them how God expects his people to live amongst their new neighbors. He says them to “seek the peace and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile. Pray to the Lord for it, because if it prospers, you too will prosper.” We are committed to working for the peace and prosperity of the world around us. It seems as though our country and the world around us are more divided today than at any other time in recent memory. Our God is the God of Peace and his son, Jesus, is the Prince of Peace. Peace isn’t just the absence of war or violence, it is a wholeness and state of being that is a gift from God. Prosperity doesn’t just come in the form of coins and monetary notes. Prosperity is the abundant life that Jesus offers to all who will believe in Him. We are committed to the flourishing of the American people and every other human being on the planet. Rather than be divisive, we will work for peace. Rather than hoarding our blessings, we will seek to be a blessing.
Finally, we will continue to proclaim the goodness and the glory of Jesus Christ. We believe that the pathway to life is through Jesus Christ. Our faith is a personal matter but it is not a private matter. Throughout history, men and women have lived and proclaimed their Good Faith which was formed by Jesus and the Bible – the Word made flesh and the Word of god passed down to us. These people of Good Faith created hospitals to care for the sick because Christ healed us from the greatest sickness of all: sin. They created organizations to help the poor and the down-trodden because Christ cared for us. They took in orphans and gave them families because our Heavenly Father took us in. They fought to free slaves and pushed for human rights because all men and women are created in the image of God. Thank God that men and women of Good Faith didn’t keep their faith to themselves. As disciples of Jesus Christ, we are obligated to those who reject God and those who accept Him, both the wise and the unwise, the haves and the have-nots, red, yellow, black and white – that is why we are eager to write you this letter. For we are not ashamed of the gospel, because it is the power of God that brings salvation to everyone who believes. For in the gospel the righteousness of God is revealed —a righteousness that is by faith from first to last, just as it is written: “The righteous will live by faith.”
Congratulations on your victory, Mr./Madame President.
Our prayers are with you.
When I was a Campus Minister, one of my duties was to lead a prayer over the school’s intercom system every morning. If you think you feel inadequate or inarticulate when it comes to praying, I promise you that praying over an intercom will amplify, not just your voice, but your anxiety as well.
If you are anything like me, you desire to pray and connect with The Father through this amazing avenue of prayer but sometimes prayer gets difficult. I get distracted. I get frustrated. I forget. I just flat out don’t know what to say some days.
In our Wednesday Night Men’s and Women’s class we are challenging one another to go deeper in our relationship with Jesus, one another, and the world around us. Prayer isn’t about getting things from God but about getting into relationship with Him. Just as your relationship with your spouse or family members grows through communication, your relationship with God grows as you spend time speaking to and listening to The Father.
If you are struggling with prayer or don’t know what to pray about, here are 4 Things You Can Pray For Right Now:
If there is one truth that will change your perspective on prayer it is this: Prayer is not about you. Prayer is all about God. Spend time praying that God will receive all the glory that is due Him. Pray that He will receive glory through your life, your decisions, in your relationships. When Jesus prayed that God’s will be done, he was praying that God would be glorified through his life and sacrifice.
In what areas of your life or this world would you like to see God glorified?
Jesus tells his disciples pray for their “daily bread.” Jesus isn’t just talking about carbs and calories here. He tells us that we can come to God to ask Him to provide for us whatever we need for each day. Some days I need God to give me rest. Some days I need help with my depression and anxiety. Some days I need more wisdom. Whatever I need, I know God provides. Here’s a list of things you can talk to God about:
– your joys
– your struggles
– your spiritual life
– your relationships
– your emotions
– your intellect
– your health
– your home
– your work
– your rest
What do you need to make it through the day today?
PEOPLE we know and love
Prayer doesn’t just change your relationship with God. It also changes your relationship with those that God has put in your life. Praying for others is one way we live out the golden rule – do for others what you would want them to do for you. When you pray for others, you move your focus off of yourself and on to another person. Your family, friends, and even your barista at Starbucks are all dealing with the same “daily bread” needs in their own lives that you are dealing with. Don’t close out your prayers today without praying for the people God has put in your life. If you don’t know what to pray for, send them a text and ask them. Chances are they will be quick to give you something from their heart that you can pray for… and they may even pray for you!
Who will you pray for today?
THE WORLD around us
A great Irish poet once said, “It’s no secret that the stars are falling from the sky / It’s no secret that are world is in darkness tonight.” Ideed the world around us seems to get a little darker every single day. Prayer is a small candle that you light in defiance of that darkness. With each candle, the darkness goes away a little more. With each candle, the world gets a little brighter.
What big issue going on in the world could use your prayers today.
I hope that these 4 ideas give you a little encouragement and provide for you some content to take into your prayer time with The Father today. If you want to dive a little deeper into your prayer life, I’ve listed a few suggestions for prayer resources below. Also, if there is any way I can pray for you today, hop over to Twitter or Facebook and send me a message. I would be honored to pray for you.
Too Busy Not to Pray by Bill Hybels
The Circle Maker by Mark Batterson
The Autobiography of George Müller by George Müller
The Practice of the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence
Armchair Mystic by Mark E Thibodeaux
The Spirit of the Disciplines by Dallas Willard
Celebration of Discipline by Richard J. Foster
The Book of Common Worship, Daily Prayer
2000 Years of Prayer
Is there a book on prayer that I left off? Do you have another suggestion for a resource on prayer? Leave a comment below and help us all learn a little more about growing our relationship with God.
Well, my friends are gone and my hair is grey
I ache in the places where I used to play
And I’m crazy for love but I’m not coming on
I’m just paying my rent every day in the Tower of Song.
– Leonard Cohen, Tower of Song, verse 1
On October 18, 2016, poet and singer/songwriter Leonard Cohen released his 14th studio album, You Want It Darker, which is quite possibly the most perfect title for a Leonard Cohen album. At 82 years old, Cohen has effectively been writing, making, and recording music longer than Elvis Presley, The Beatles, and Britney Spears combined. What might be the secret to Cohen’s endurance in an industry that is known for one-hit wonders, flash-in-the-pan stars, and fly-by-night raconteurs? What might be the lessons or principles one might glean from asking this question for others who seek to extend the shelf life of their own careers? Perhaps Cohen himself gives us insight into how he understands his own life and what sustains a long career in one of his most captivating songs.
“Tower of Song” was released on 1988’s, I’m Your Man album which came nearly two decades into to his career. One can understand the song to be an autobiographical narrative of the innerworkings of the heart and mind of The Singer – all the longings, joys, pains, and triumphs one must endure to become an artist and to truly live as one. In the song, The Singer, grizzled and alone, looks back on his long life (Well my friends are gone / and my hair is grey / I ache in the places where I used to play) living in the Tower of Song. The Tower serves as his description of the life that The Singer has been resigned to. The Singer tells us that he was compelled to live in the Tower of Song because he “was born like this (and) had no choice.” After all, he was “born with the gift of a golden voice” and “27 angels from the great beyond” subdued him, tying him to a table in the Tower of Song. It was not The Singer’s will that brought him and confined him to the Tower, it was a calling from beyond himself and outside of his own power that compelled him there and sustains his life. The Tower provides for him armor and protection to enable him to withstand enemy fire. Inside this place are other singers and artists, apparently also consigned to live within this framework of the Tower as well. Specifically, the Singer hears Hank Williams coughing “all night long” and he feels a connection to the haunted and saintly country western crooner that lives “a hundred floors above.” His songs serve as “mighty judgements” – prophecies and revelations meant to free the oppressed and marginalized “have-nots” and shame the rich who exploit them. For The Singer to remain he must continue paying rent – writing songs and singing regardless of how he feels at any given moment (I’m crazy for Love / but I’m not coming on) – and it is his songs that will endure long after he is gone. The Singer will be continue speaking sweetly forever “from his window in the Tower of Song.” Does this song really unravel the great mysteries of the universe, as Cohen has claimed while performing this song live, and give answers to how we might go about living a life filled with lasting meaning?
In The Listening Heart, author AJ Conyers attempts to give the reader a theological, sociological, and historical understanding of something that that is necessary for the flourishing of all mankind and the thing that Cohen’s Tower of Song captures so wonderfully – the power of meditating upon and attending to one’s vocation in life. Conyers argues that it is not in exercising free will, making individual choice, or even incorporating oneself into the societal milieu that produces a life of meaning. It is in responding to a vocation – the divine call and the human response to that call – that infuses life with meaning and purpose. Conyers laments that it is the universal loss of a sense of vocation that has given rise to the modern sense of listlessness, purposelessness, and selfishness that plagues our modern life. Although the Enlightenment has been sold as a instutition-questioning, nation-building, and wealth-producuing enterprise marked by the freedom of individual choice and the ability to understand the world around us as it it really is. Conyers argues that it has essentially accomplished the exact opposite. Rather than give insight into the mystery of a vast and beautiful universe (from deep space all the way down to the smallest human cell), the effects of the Enlightenment have tricked mankind into believing that it can master and control the world around us. By removing God (and in effect, the community of believers in the church) from the public square and relegating religion to a private matter, the State is now the one that is free to compel men into labor rather than call men to a life of service for the benefit of others and society as a whole. Rather than champion the uniqueness of each individual, the rise of the African slave trade, arguably the greatest export of the Enlightenment, reduced men and women to livestock or replaceable cogs in the machine of industry. Modern culture is essentially distracted and disconnected from God, moral character, creation, and community. Today, life is less about human flourishing (individually and as a community) and more about merely surviving. Conyers believes there is a better way. He succeeds in articulating what Jacob Shatzer calls a “grand vision of theology and ethics, rooted in the Bible and shaped by the Great Tradition of Christian theology” that reawakens this lost idea of vocation for the 21st century. The Listening Heart is not a diatribe against what has gone wrong in the past as much as it is a clarion call for the community of God to rise up and lean into what the Father may be calling us toward.
For Conyers, understanding and living out one’s vocation means giving attention to God as well as the people, the place, and the purposes for which he has called you to. Throughout the course of the book, Conyers attempts to give an equation for Vocation and how one might come to lean into God’s call their life. The equation might read as Attention + Tolerance + Place + Rest = Vocation and Community.
The purpose and end of attention is a transformation in which reality awakens within us, pushing aside the unreal and selfish dreams which had kept us subdued in unwakefulness. “Attention” of the sort we are discussing here, and which is related to the biblical idea of “watchfulness” or “alertness” always has this quality about it. It centers not on the self, but on something outside. Its power is in its honesty, in its reflection of the truth outside the observer.
For Conyers, the “appropriate response to vocation” is attention. Our ultimate attention is to God but one must also give attention to the people, places, and things God has given to us so that we may give Him glory and attend to the work He has given us to accomplish. No doubt the 21st century is a time filled with great distraction. From devices with non-stop notifications buzzing and blinking and beeping to the age old temptation to overlook the good life in front of us in favor of what might be a great life “over there,” our age is an age of diversion and distraction. Stephen Pressfield writes about The Resistance in his book, The War of Art. It is the Resistance that distracts and derails men and women on the road to living out their calling and a life of meaning. The Resistance, he says, stands between the “life we live, and the unlived life within us.” Conyers gives counsel in overcoming distraction through practices of attention such as prayer, perseverance in the face of trials (again, Pressfield would argue that suffering and trials are part of The Resistance’s bag of tricks), perceiving truth, and the willingness to face pain all require our attention if we are to experience the life god would have us live. To be present, in the midst of everything that the world may throw at you, is to attend to God’s calling on your life.
The modern doctrine (of Tolerance) has therefore obscured what might properly be called the practice of toleration. I decline to call it doctrine because it is not so much the statement of something true as it is the preparation of the soul for that which is true. It is more akin to silence than to discourse. It is the habit of not cutting off your interlocutor before listening to what he or she has to say.
Conyers makes a great distinction between Tolerance as a doctrine and Tolerance as a uniquely Christian practice. For a society to function well, a free exchange of ideas marked by an “openness to the experiences and thinking of others” is needed so that all may “wrestle with the foundational questions of what it means to be human and to live in community.” The doctrine of Tolerance produced by the Enlightenment, alive and well in today’s world, actually seeks to undermine this free exchange of ideas but creating the false teaching that all ideas are equal and valid. By relegating religious and moral thought to the private, personal spheres of life The State, and by extension, the Individual was now free to live and move and create their own state of being free from accountability and criticism. However, the practice of Tolerance is something radically different and finds its roots in the Christian, not secular, tradition. Whereas the doctrine of Tolerance proclaims that each individual can arrive at and capture their own truth, the practice of Tolerance is the pursuit of truth. “It is an openness towards what is true, recognizing the truth of God is true for all people,” says Conyers. It is a drawing out of truth wherever truth may be found – in the sacred as well as the secular.
Real people belong to real places, and places, like people, have a character. Vocation is directed not to some pure spirit, or an abstract personality, but to persons who are rotted in a particular setting, and who can be known in part by the setting in which they are found or came to maturity.
Missing in today’s culture is a true sense of place. For Conyers, Place isn’t just where one may find themselves at this given moment. It is also the place where one comes from, “the place from which we proceed.” These places have a profound affect on us and flavor not only our lives but our work as well. In the Garden, God placed man and woman and gave them a work and a place to “cultivate, build, and improve on” right alongside The Creator Himself. Place is the essence of the Incarnation. Christ left one place, Heaven, in order to live in the midst of another place, Earth (specifically, 1st century Palestine). He fulfilled His calling from God and is now calling each of us to a place, The Kingdom of God. Our culture places a high premium on moving up the ladder of success and moving from place to “more significant place.” Ferris Bueller once remarked that “Life moves by pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around every once in a while, you could miss it.” For us to fully appreciate God’s calling on our lives, we must attend to the Place where we came from, where we find ourselves now, and ultimately, where God would have us be.
In the ancient and medieval mind, the contrary of this inexorable ruin to which all things run in time is the notion of “rest,” which means that time runs toward a goal or purpose – an eschatological goal, a telos – that is secure against the ravages of Chronos. Thus St. Augustine could say, “We were made for Thee, O God, and our hearts are restless until we find rest in Thee.” Rest is not idleness, but as Thomas Merton said, “the highest form of activity.” Nor is it obliteration in death. That is why the Christian prayer, Rest in peace,” is not a concession to death but, in fact, a invocation against death.
In what is probably the most interesting chapter of the entire book, Conyers describes Rest, not as a Sabbath rest or a lazy, summer nap, but as telos, or the ultimate object or aim of life. The Enlightenment has caused our modern sensibilities to be obsessed with Motion for the sake of movement and Change for the sake of change. According to Conyers, “The biblical idea of ‘rest’ contains within it the assumption that the motion of people and things and events anticipates a time of ‘rest,” a time in which their motion is complete, will find its end.” No wonder we are a restless people in a world marked with much chaos and little peace. We are so obsessed with moving on to the next chapter in life that we fail to be attentive to the moment.
Reclaiming Community and Vocation
What is necessary for the world to begin to reclaim the idea of vocation? The answer might be Humility. For an individual to begin to aspire to something greater, a posture of humility is needed. To acknowledge that there is a God who is the one in control, who invites human beings into a relationship with Him, to co-labor beside Him in bringing truth, justice, and love into the world necessitates humility. To acknowledge the complexity and vastness of the creation and universe as well as our inability as mankind to control or coerce creation to our will, takes an understanding that we are not even half as powerful or in control as we think. To realize that each of us are called to serve the world around us rather than use others for our own purposes, requires that we let go of our pride and recognize that we “belong to Another” and to one another. To live out one’s vocation means saying “no” to our will and “yes” to the will of the One who has called us to this time and this place to serve these people to His purposes to His glory and to the benefit of others. That is how we will pay our rent in The Tower of Song.
The Listening Heart
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“Leadership is stewardship. It’s temporary and you’re accountable.”
This quote by Andy Stanley, pastor of North Point Community Church, kicks off one of my favorite podcasts. I have it memorized by heart and I think I do a pretty good Andy Stanley impersonation as I mimic his cadence and inflections each week as I listen to the introduction.
More than just a great quote or motivational saying, Andy is right.
Those of us in leadership – whether it is in the church, in the workplace, or at home – have been given our position by God and he expects us to steward each moment to bring Him glory and honor.
Leadership is temporary. Solomon declares that there is a time for everything under the sun including the time we have been given to serve and lead. One day we will transition to a different role, the kids will leave the nest, and for some, retirement may come sooner than we would like. Like Steve Miller says, “Time keeps on slipping into the future.”
We are accountable to God for our leadership, too. One day, if we steward these gifts well we will hear Him say, “Well done good and faithful servant” or we will be confronted with a reality that because we were afraid, failed to plan well, or just were just plain lazy we left some things undone or missed opportunities God had in store for us.
I think that those of us who find ourselves in leadership positions inherently understand these truths but sometimes we struggle with how to connect our orthodoxy (right understanding) with real, tangible orthopraxis (right practices).
More than anything, I want to help you steward your leadership well by challenging you to honor God in everything you do in every area of your life. The Hebrew word for Honor is kabed and it has a weightiness to it. It can be translated as honor, renown, and glory. When the Psalmist says in Psalm 86:9,12, “I will praise you, Lord my God, with all my heart; I will glorify your name forever” he is honoring God with everything that he is.
I love how Colossians 3:23–25 reads in The Message. Paul says, “Work from the heart for your real Master, for God, confident that you’ll get paid in full when you come into your inheritance. Keep in mind always that the ultimate Master you’re serving is Christ. The sullen servant who does shoddy work will be held responsible. Being Christian doesn’t cover up bad work.”
A person of honor always gives their best effort in every area of their life. Are you stewarding the life God has given you to glorify Him in every aspect inside and out?
I also want to help you lead well during the time God has given you to lead. The day in and say out grind of leadership will test your faithfulness. There is always another person to visit, always another phone call make or email to send, another task to complete, and another project to begin. The problem for most of is not that we have to make choices between right and wrong or choose between good and bad. Tensions arise because we become paralyzed when we have to choose between right and almost right. We procrastinate because we have to choose between good and great. Leadership take discernment and wisdom. To me, wisdom isn’t knowledge. Wisdom is applied knowledge. We are faithful to our calling when we apply the knowledge we have obtained to make the most out of every opportunity presented before us.
Ephesians 5:15–17 (NLT) challenges us saying, “So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise. Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days. Don’t act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants you to do.”
A faithful leader is wise in how they use their time to accomplish the tasks God has given them to serve His people. Are you being faithful with the time and opportunities before you?
Finally, if we are to be accountable we must humbly submit our lives to God. The higher we climb in our leadership and the more things we accomplish the greater the temptation becomes to take full credit for everything good that happens in our lives. Of course the opposite is true. Sometimes things do not work out how we planned. The vision that we had for our lives and the people we serve can go off the rails. When this happens we can be quick to take all the blame. Some call this the Superman theory where leaders begin to believe that they are Superman and must take on every task, burden, pain, joy, celebration, and failure. A wise teacher once told me, “Don’t be quick to carry all the blame when something do not go the way you planned because that same attitude might cause you to be quick to take all the glory when something goes well.” That’s sound advice.
I’ll let you in on a secret that you already know… You are not Superman. Neither am I. We have no way of controlling every outcome of the decisions and choices we make in our leadership. However, we serve the One who knows all, is in all, and works all things – good and not so good – to His glory and the good of those who love Him.
Proverbs 3:5–8 ESV) says, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD, and turn away from evil. It will be healing to your flesh and refreshment to your bones.”
An accountable leader humbly submits to God and trusts Him with every aspect of their leadership. Are you trusting in the Lord with all your heart or are you leaning on your own understanding?