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Playing Catch Up (Update)

Uplift Thanks
Our trip to Uplift ended up being very, very positive. Since 1993, I have probably only missed 2 or 3 summers at Uplift. From camper to intern to counselor to dorm guy to now leading my own group I have found that this camp is perfect for groups large and small. Having only been at my church for a month this marked our first big trip together as the youth group. I chose Uplift because I knew that everything would be taken care of before we arrived and that would allow me more time with my students. Andrew Baker, Brandon Tiddle, and the rest of the gang that puts Uplift together did an excellent job of creating and leading a memorable experience for my students. Thank you Uplift.

Uplift Class
When I first started attending Uplift as a camper the classes taught by the youth ministers where always the most random assortment of classes ever produced: No theme and sometimes very little thought (depending on the YM). When Andrew became the director though, the theme of the camp began to bleed over into the classes. This year they took it a step further and had a handful of youth ministers write the curriculum for every class. Basically, the classes would have continuity with the theme and all three sessions of camp. The theme this year was ER: Eternal Relationships and I was asked to teach the class titled Neurology. I was pretty excited when I received the curriculum because it called for me to perform brain surgery!!! Ok, not really but it had a drama skit where I would place the mind of Christ in a student and talk about how the mind of Christ differs from our way of thinking. I was told that everything I would need would be provided for me: Scrubs, set pieces, brains, instruments. However, when I arrived in my classroom only half of what was supposed to be there was actually there and half of that was messed up or unusable. My class at Uplift looked like it would quickly turn to disaster.

Praise be to God that He didn’t let that happen. In under an hour, I was able to scrap the old class and create a brand new one. While I was trying to figure out what to do, God gave me the answer to my predicament. Instead of teaching a class that was over the top and full of grey matter I decided to just be honest about my life and hang out with these kids and share a message of forgiveness and transformation. I spent the whole week telling students about how it seemed that I had everything together in High School. I was a leader, well liked, and on my way to college as a youth minister. However, I was a complete jerk to those around me because of my anger and selfishness. My relationships were breaking apart because of this sin.

Anger isn’t a very sexy sin. You don’t hear about it from the pulpit so you would think that it isn’t really that big of deal. But it is. God used my class this week to touch a couple of students and families. I felt humbled and inadequate every time a sponsor or student came to me afterward to thank me. Their stories of how anger was affecting them or a loved one drove home that fact that we need to talk a little more about these “second tier” sins. Youth ministers, before you write another class about sex, gossip, or alcohol think about addressing stress or anger or disrespect.

Will I Ever Eat a Fast Food Hamburger Again?
After reading the slaughterhouse chapter of Fast Food Nation I’m not so sure anymore. Darn you social conscience! This question didn’t arise because of the cattle, it has come because of the conditions in which human beings have to work in and around in these modern day death traps. I thought The Jungle took care of all that but I guess not. It is appalling the dangers and conditions in these slaughterhouses. I feel a personal boycott coming on.

Nike+iPod
This fat sack of crap is completely mesmerized by this new product. What is Nike+iPod? It’s a wireless sensor that you place in your shoe that communicates to your iPod nano in order to track your workout which you synch to your computer and share with a community of other users. It also will coach and motivate you as you run! Genius! Synergy! Genisergy!

From iLounge:

During CNBC’s “On The Money” this evening, sports reporter Darren Rovell provided the first look at the new Nike+iPod Sports Kit, saying he was “very impressed with it” and that it “could change the running world.” Following a first-hand test of the kit, Rovell proclaimed that it could “kill treadmills and membership at gyms” and “really change the way people run and how people think about running.” According to Rovell, the iPod nano was chosen for Nike+iPod support because the majority of nano owners use it to work out, with Apple’s Greg Joswiak noting that the nano is the most popular iPod model. A Nike exec added that the kit will work with 4 million shoes by the end of the year. Also during the CNBC segment, it was revealed that Apple and Nike plan to spend “no money” on advertising the kit and will “rely solely on buzz.” Besides launches at Nike and Apple Stores tomorrow, the only additional marketing planned for the device is its use by Tour de France winner Lance Armstrong in his preparation for the upcoming New York City Marathon.

iTunes has already added coaching/music mixes on their site to use with this new system. I am intrigued.

Nike+iPod Update

Mussolini Must Need a Sweater
I cried during an Adam Sandler movie. Click has been my favorite movie this summer. As great as mutants, pirates, cars, and men in blue tights are they are no match for the reminder that family, relationships, and the small stuff are the true essence of living.

Whew, I think I’m caught up on my posting now. Have a great day everyone!

A Firecracker Waitin’ To Blow

Hello from New York City!!!

The wedding went off with a hitch (haha) and we are now in NYC until Tuesday. While my wife and have been a few times this is my parent’s very first trip to the Big Apple.

We have had a blast in the city today. Our hotel is directly across from Shea Stadium in Queens so we had a nice long subway ride into Manhattan on the 7 train. We took it all the way to Times Square and I wish you could have seen the look on my parent’s faces as we came up out of the subway and into the street. They were wide-eyed and grinning from ear to ear. We spent much of the afternoon walking up and down Broadway and in and aound Times Square.

I got a chance to take everyone to John’s Pizzarea on 44th. It is this great little pizza place that was built inside of an old church. They have 4 brick ovens and make the (in my opinion) best pizza in town.

There was some sort of street bazaar going on down 6th street. The sights and the smells of all the food vendors was so cool. I especially got a kick out of a group of Italian soccer fans yelling and screaming at the French Creeps booth. Good stuff!

We walked through the bazaar until we reached Radio City and then we turned back and headed home to the hotel.

Tomorrow we are going to 30 Rock, Battery Park, WTC, Central Park, 5th Ave. and the Empire State Building. It should be very good.

Oh yeah, I ran into Danny Glover and his little granson as they were coming out of a grocery store. We walked with them until they stopped off at McDonald’s for lunch. I love this town!!!

Hiatus

I will be out of pocket for the next week or so.

I’ll be in the giant metropolis of Searcy, AR with my youth group for Uplift starting tomorrow. We will be back on Thursday but then I’m off for New York to preform a wedding for my sister-in-law.

This will be the fifth wedding that I will have preformed. I’ve got it down now:

You.
You.
Yes.
Yes.
Kiss.
Kiss.
Present.

That’s about it. 15 minutes tops!

Of course I’m kidding. I’ll try and upload some pictures from camp and a few from the wedding.

I wish everyone a happy and safe 4th of July. If you’re planning on shooting some fireworks off this holiday please enjoy this quiet and subtle PSA from our friends in the U.K. concerning firework safety:

Happy 4th,

Micheal

Week In Review (Updated)

It has been a long but awesome week.

I was formally introduced to the congregation and charged with leading the youth ministry last Sunday. The elders placed hands on us, prayed for me, and sent me into the fields. It was a humbling and exciting moment for me.

While in the office this week, I was again struck with how awesome my job is. Not only do I get to hang-out with students, not only do I get to tell them about my Savior, and not only do I get to walk with them through their teenage years but I get paid to study the Bible. I have been planning on teaching 1 Corinthians this summer so I have loved living in and with this letter over the past 2 months. This week’s time in the Word was just wonderful! Praise God!

I have also been reading Practicing the Presence of God by Bro. Lawrence and God is Here, a modern-day commentary on Bro. Lawrence. This is now the fourth time that I have read PtPoG and I am overwhelmed with how much this little book, written 400 years ago, speaks to me. Good stuff.

One of my jobs this week was to change the church sign out front of our church. I thought, “If I’m going to do this, I want to do something that is different from your typical church sign.” So…

Church Sign

Other events this week included buying tickets to Dave Matthews Band in August, getting a new desk for my home office, and a trip to the movies with my teens to see Cars. A fun time was had by all.

Well folks, that was my week in review. I hope everyone has a blessed week.

Peace.

Moved

Well, we have officially moved into our new home. A big thank you to everyone who helped load and unload our truck. We couldn’t have done it with out you. The move went smoothely except that I lost my cell phone. Argh! Other than that it went very well and very quickly. Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers.

Peace,
Micheal

State of the Blog

My fellow Bloggians,

We are entering into a time of change and transition here at Kicking at the Darkness. This past Wednesday, we sold our house and we are, right now, on our way to purchase a new one. We will begin moving a week from today. A week from this coming Thursday I will begin my new position as a youth minister in the Dallas/ Ft Worth area. Things have progressed very quickly and we only have God to thank. The entire process from begining to end has been blanketed in prayer and the Lord has been faithful. At no time have we felt any anxiety about moving or selling our house or purchasing a new one. It has been as if everything has already been taken care of. Praise God.

Kicking at the Darkness has been a wonderful escape (ess-CA-pe) and hobby for me over the past year. It has allowed me to connect with people all over the world and work on my writing and web skills. Although I am long way from being the next Thomas Friedman or Malcolm Gladwell, I have enjoyed this space on Web 2.0 immensely.

Over the next few weeks thare will be some subtle changes to the blog that I think will help enhance our time together. First, I will begin posting a Micheal Recommends section under both the On My Desk and On My iPod tabs. I will be writing about the books and albums that have made big differences in my life. I have a bit of an ecclectic taste so hopefully you can find something that you can connect with. Maybe we could even start on online reading cohort. Maybe? Secondly, I will finally update my links page and the about page. Thirdly, we are going to just plain have fun.

Thank you for spending time with me here.

Peace,
Micheal

Out of the Darkness

Tough, you think you’ve got the stuff
You’re telling me and anyone
You’re hard enough
You don’t have to put up a fight
You don’t have to always be right
Let me take some of the punches
For you tonight

Listen to me now
I need to let you know
You don’t have to go it alone

And it’s you when I look in the mirror
And it’s you when I don’t pick up the phone
Sometimes you can’t make it on your own

We fight all the time
You and I, that’s alright
We’re the same soul
I don’t need, I don’t need to hear you say
That if we weren’t so alike
You’d like me a whole lot more

Listen to me now
I need to let you know
You don’t have to go it alone

And it’s you when I look in the mirror
And it’s you when I don’t pick up the phone
Sometimes you can’t make it on your own

I know that we don’t talk
I’m sick of it all
Can you hear me when I sing
You’re the reason I sing
You’re the reason why the opera is in me
Well, hey now
Still got to let you know
A house doesn’t make a home
Don’t leave me here alone

And it’s you when I look in the mirror
And it’s you that makes it hard to let go
Sometimes you can’t make it on your own
Sometimes you can’t make it
Best you can do is to fake it
Sometimes you can’t make it on your own

NYC Day 2

Ghostbusters!What a day. From meeting Matt Lauer this morning to talking to Ivanka Trump in the afternoon to a hit Broadway play this evening it was a full day. I’m too tired to type.

The highlights:

At Today we met Matt and Al. We saw Bode Miller through the studio and we saw Dora and Diego dance to Gloia Estafan right in front of us. Viva la Boots! Viva la Boots!

I was standing next to the elevator in Trump Tower when Ivanka Trump walked right out and stood next to me. She was in a buisness meeting so I couldn’t get a picture with her. I simply wispered, “Hello Ms Trump.” She flashed me a big smile and a wave and then it was back to buisness. It was cool but I wish it had been George or Carolyn.

I ate the best pizza at a place called John’s directly across from the Majestic. It was an old church and some of the light fixtures were old, churchy lights. It was pretty neat.

Wicked was wonderful! Boffo!

More tomorrow…

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